Friends! Obviously you listen and also say; I love you dear or I care you etc. Such dialogues really give calm and comfort to us whenever someone says it to us. No doubt, usually it’s a beautiful moment. According to me, most of the people around the world don’t know the real meaning of love and care.
Okay! I’ve a li’l question for you. Why do we get irritation sometime due to someone’s lovely and caring emotions?
Have you any answer?
Now try the next one. Why do you think sometime that it’s just you, who continuously give scarifies to keep happy your loved one?
I really appreciate your spirit. May God bless you for your good deeds. Now I’m going to tell a little story as a simple example. Read it carefully please!
That was a cold and silent evening of winter. A farmer was coming back to his home from fields. He was poor man and he lived with his son (his son was a young and strong personality) in a small hut. He found a passenger in his way. Due to so much cold the passenger unable to kept on journey. He requested to farmer for shelter. The farmer was a kind person, he took him to home. After dinner, at the time to sleep, the farmer got worried due to the unavailability of a spare blanket for guest. He decided to give his blanket to guest for a night. His son said; “Papa! Would you mind, if I give my blanket to guest because I’m not a child now. I can easily spend the cold night than you as you are an old man”. The farmer said; “My son! How can a father sleep all the cold night in such a condition that he covered with blanket and his beloved son spend all the night without blanket? My dear son! You should keep the blanket for you, I would manage”. The son couldn’t give any answer and obey his father. So the farmer slept all the night with comfort because his son was sleeping in blanket and the son couldn’t sleep as his old father was sleeping in a cold night without any blanket.
Now I’m going to make conclusion. The entire story is about relation of love and care among a father and a son. But can you reply me that, what kind of this love and care which does not make any logic and sense?
I think its selfishness of a father to get comfort, because in the relation of love and care you have to care about the comfort of your loved one logically. In a bird eye view, the above story, describes the obligation of a son and the love of a father for his son. But sorry to say; it’s not a lovely story my friend. I’m not pointing out a specific personality behavior. I just want to make you to pay attention as we have to face such a stories and themes in our real social life. I don’t want to impose my thought on you.
I just want to say that, please! Love logically and care someone with a sense.
Now at the end of this discussion, what do you think about so called lovely and caring emotions around you? Just change it with your real lovely and caring behavior.